For those wanting to hire an escort for the first time, even just the idea can be extremely exciting. Although its something to look forward to, hiring a sex worker for the first time can also be a bit of a nerve-racking experience. Nervousness related to the experience, whether your own capabilities, the uncertainty of such an intimate act with a stranger, or whether or not they’ll like you, or all very common, so there’s no need to get worked up at all. In this article we outline a few things that can better help you prepare for your first date with an escort so that you can enjoy your encounter with renewed confidence.
Getting prepared for your date
In places like Sydney, escorts jobs are far from uncommon – this popularity should work as some kind of assurance from the outset that hiring escorts is very common and nothing to be concerned about. In fact, with you investing a considerable amount of time and money, putting in a little bit more time to adequately prepare is an ideal way to protect your investment. It’s a good idea to first consider what you want so that you aren’t umming and ahhing during the date. Consider whether you want something like intimate touching and massage, or perhaps you’re just after some straight up sex – or why not both, even. Perhaps you’re even just after some cuddling. When you know what you want, you can then find a suitable escort and suggest this outright to make the date a much more pleasurable experience for you. After finding the perfect escort to suit your needs, making a great first impression is a good way to start off your relationship. All it takes is you sending all the relevant details through a polite email or text message containing all the details your escort needs to get them thinking of you positively from the outset.
The day of the date
With your preparations assured, it’s time to think about the date itself. One of the first things you should pay attention to is the time of your date – being late is obviously a no-no, as this is not only inconsiderate, but it can cause both parties to feel rushes. This shouldn’t mean being early is good, as your date will not have necessarily finished preparing yet. It’s best to just be right on time. After all the time spent waiting, know going in that faster does not mean better. Take your time and enjoy every moment, with time spent paying attention to the many sensations you’re bound to experience. That’s not to say that you shouldn’t enjoy some high-energy moments, but mixing it up is by far the best way to enjoy the entire experience as a whole. Mixing it up can also extend to the activities during the date – while you’re likely to have a lot of sex, taking part in some cuddling, talking, joking around and massage can serve to heighten the entire experience.
Following up after your date
After you’ve had your date, you might be feeling a little bit down, especially if you invested a lot of time preparing beforehand. This isn’t uncommon, and you might even start doubting the authenticity of the meeting. A good way to close the date, that may hopefully also alleviate some of these feelings, is to send a thank you message to the escort you went on a date with. These messages are always well received and are sure to help you frame the entire experience in a highly positive light, rather than any feelings of doubt you may have drummed up.